There are two types of sexual interaction a human can have. Lets start with the most common, fucking. Now I dont care for that word, but there is no other way to put it. We can not call it sex can we? Why? Sex or sexuality, encompasses both acts, fucking and lovemaking both come under the heading of types of sex. There has been huge turn in the way people (at least in our society) have sexual contact. Fucking seems to be the name of the game at this point. Not that its bad, its not...but there should be a balance. Where we are seeing the most damage is in the union of marriage. We have all seen the numbers, haven't you? Most marriage's fail before 5 years in this country. I believe one reason among many, is that people are so misinformed and uneducated about their sexuality that they are confused about the differences between lust and love. Fucking is purely an act of animal nature. Now, like I said, there is nothing wrong with it and it does serve it's purpose. It helps to relieve surface stress and frustration. Lovemaking is much deeper act, able to reach the soul and release deeper damage that life has left behind. Another area that is being affected by our lack of sensuality is our general care and respect for each other. What I mean by this is how we treat strangers and our friends. Since we live in a society that frowns on open honest sexuality, it makes us as people more frustrated, unhappy, and on edge. We are more apt to lash out at strangers that might upset us. Our society does not promote love and sensuality. Most married couples if you asked them, could not tell you the difference between making love and fucking! I find this sad and in a way i am scared for the future of the human race. If we as people dont practice love and compassion towards each other, violence and hatred is only going to get worse.. This needs to start in the home, teach your family to show care and understanding when dealing with each other and especially strangers who may be in need. Play grab ass now and then, flop on the couch and hug and kiss in front of your kids. Teach them its ok to be open and caring, teach by example! Show them by lending a helping hand to your community and by being a part of the movement to spread understanding about human compassion, love, and sensuality. learn, practice, and teach everyone how to have a healthy happy human sexuality. |
