Hi there I'm finally back with another story or idea. I think most of you know me well enough that I can talk about something serious. Well here it is. I am going to be talking about male orgasm disorders today. Wait! Stop laughing and don't click on anything.! lol There has been allot of clients and patients that have asked me for help in this area. Now this is a fairly broad subject so it will take me a couple of entries. lets start with the physical causes (because its the easiest) . Allot of the drugs on the street today like Alcohol and Cocaine are big problems, but I found more often that more men have problems because of prescribed drugs. Blood pressure meds, and other drugs used for common aging issues can often lead to problems. (please check with you Dr if you are taking perscribed drugs and having problems sexually .) MAIO inhibitors like Prozac, used for depression are some of the leading culprits..Also anti anxiety meds such as, Zoloft and Paxil are some others. Now this is something we all have to watch, and that is our diet, excersize, and general lifestyle. All of which can lead to illnesses Some other reasons are not as easy to fix. There is a common problem something called BPH benign prostate enlargement that can cause problems ejaculating and even pain during orgasm. Luckily there is medication for it. (again talk to your Dr if you have pain during orgasm or problems urinating.) Cancers, multiple sclerosis, and being overweight are some common issues. Generally any physical illness will effect your sexual being. A healthy sexuality is a delicate thing, Remember you must keep a balance between your mind , body and spirit in order to be truly healthy and happy. But there are times where men are allowing it or over emphasizing it and really in a sense, causing problems for themselves. Which brings me to the psychological causes and triggers. Sex what is sex? Well, physically I think we all know, right? God I hope so!! other wise what the hell are you reading this for? Well what most know, but forget to think about is that sex is not an act but a thought. And since it starts merely as a thought, It only takes a thought to destroy it... Self esteem, depression, anxiety, guilt, these are but a few emotional causes. There are also behavioral causes as well. Poor masturbation habits, attitudes toward women, poor birth control methods ( although not to much anymore since we are more and more using condoms for HIV and other infections. Vigorous masturbation can lead to an inability to cum during intercourse. Reason is after prolonged use of this method the man gets used to that pace and he is not able to achieve this vaginally, so ends up pulling out and masturbates to completion. I have not found this to be that big a problem, except in older single men. Trying to hard has been an ongoing problem. These days with our attachment to quickness, we as a country have become so use to fast food, 1 hr photo, and now now now mentality, and have forgotten that a sexual act is supposed to be enjoyed not forced. Now, my favorite,! Not taking the time to both physically and mentally submerge yourself and your partner fully in the sexual moment. My mom used to tell me, " anything worth doing is worth doing right!" and please for you own sake, remember your wife/partner needs to be in the moment as well, so take the time to get her there. I promise you will benefit from it. Its not about the big O boys, its about the journey. Slow down, take time to enjoy you partners orgasm as well as your own. .......
next time how to prolong or delay your orgasm!
See you soon and remember if you have questions call me. also your comments are always welcome!
