In my own opinion, attitudes toward and about sex is the single major problem in this and many countries around the globe. It has been proven that our sexuality plays a key role in our physical and mental health. Yet in most studies held around the globe, show that most 3rd year medical students have extremely limited knowledge of sexual practices, gender issues, STD's, as well as posses an uncomfortable attitude when discussing sexuality issues in either the clinical or personal arenas.
This is a big problem, since polls done of the general population have shown that 87% of them indicate that if faced with a sexual problem, they would first consult their MD.
So if our future doctors dont feel they have the knowledge or are even comfortable enough to talk to their patients about sex. Where does that leave the general population when it comes to getting help?
This is the one major reason I take my job so seriously. it is imperative to expand the general population's knowledge and comfortability level about sex in order to slow the problems of; divorce rate, rape, teen preg, molestation of children, the transfer of STD's, psychosocial aggressive behaviors toward gender issues, as well as general stress and physical illnesses caused by poor sexual habits.
I am aware that most of you that are reading this think of me as a type of escort. But I am no escort. What I do is know where near what your common escort does. This is nothing more than a vessel to get to me to all the people out there looking for assistance with questions that it seems no one wants to answer. There is no doubt that I love sex and always will! As a matter of fact I love sex so much that I have spent my entire adult life studying sex, exploring sexual practices, and pushing my own personal boundaries along with some of you. lol But I am an outcast. I have had to endure a great many hurtful flings, arrests, and loss, simply because I love the subject of human sexuality. Why? Because of the archaic beliefs that sex is dirty and that anyone that works with sexuality is a hooker. For as long as anyone can research attitudes around sex is that it should not be discussed openly and honestly and anyone that does, pays the price of being labeled as a slut, whore, or extremist, or as recent as the early 1900's, insane and locked up for it! Well these beliefs have been in place a long long time and have proven to compound the above mentioned societal problems if not be responsible for their creation.
People have been having sex since the creation of man, and although these archaic beliefs have slowed the practice of having sex out of shame. It has done way more to damage literally hundreds of generations sexuality. We as a society are creating sexual mutants, rapist, broken homes, simply because no one wants to talk about sex! how stupid is that? I dont think that this way is working, and i dont think anything is going to improve, nor will sexual urges lessen if we are forced to hide them. It will only make more and more sexual mutations.
When are people going to wake up and realize that in order to fix and rid our society of these very serious problems, someone has to start talking about them and educating the masses on the benefits of a healthy happy sex life. Take for example, my own children. 87% of women out there are physically capable of achieving ejaculation but only 6% do. So what would be the odds that ALL my female offspring DO if these numbers are a natural occurrence? But then again, female ejaculation is a myth? right? All my children are able to come to me and ask any and all questions, openly without pressure or embarrassment, and that includes extreme intimate ones. Imagine being the first major contribution to your child's sexual knowledge and having that kind of trust, openness and dialog with you kids. A child that feels safe enough to talk to you about their sexual development without being judged or scolded, will talk to you about any of the many problems these kids face growing up. And it gives them a base to work from built on truth, and reality, instead of lies and secrecy, which in turn will better prepare them for the real world and the real problems they will face as adults. we need to be not only able to talk openly about our sexuality, but be proud of it! This I believe, is where we as a society, need to start to break the chain of sexual idiocy. Education is power!
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