I have a some questions for my readers, and I seriously would like some answers. Dont worry, nothing hard, but still important to me. Ready? Good.
1. What is the most important part of sex? Now i am not talking about a sexual act.
2. Do women need love more than men and sex less and visa versa, and why do you think that is/is not?
3. (This is an important question for me) How old are you? Gender? how important is love/affection to you?
These questions are a going to be part of a thesis i am writing. I am laying the ground work for a new case study. please be honest, and as clear in your answers as possible. Please just comment to this blog to answer. and please let me know if you want your answers posted on my site. I would like to post the answers, but I understand if you dont wish it. Also please give a first name and email address with your answers. I promise your email will not be posted, or used for any spamming. Its just so i can reach you if i need to.
Thank you in advance for your help. We cant learn if we dont question. jojo
Thank you all for your answers. You can comment if you wish, but in order to compile i have to close this to anymore comments. It takes a bit but at some point in the next 4 mos or so i will publish my findings. thanks again for all your comments!
Comments
Misty:
the most important part of sex is pleasing your partner or unselfishness. it is best when you please the other person and many times they will also wish to please you. Men and women are equally into love and sex is not a difference between male and female but individuals. I have know many men who feel love is important as well as many women who did not and vice versa 50 male love is very important to me though not always concerning sex
William:
Speaking of sex as an act of love, and not just a quick piece of ass, I would have to say that the most important thing is the physical intimacy. Physically, two people cannot get any closer, right?
I would have to say that women need more love, and men need more sex. For the most part, women are more emotional, and men are animals.
I am a 59 yr old male, and love and affection are very important to me. I haven't been in a true relationship for several years, and I miss having someone to love and care for. Massages with happy endings, though relieve the pressure, are just not the same.
unwrapped:
1. CHEMISTRY. There has to be some sort of connection when any level of intimacy comes into play. If there isn't, then it is very robotic. Does the person make your heart skip? Do you look forward to being with that person or touch that person? How about being seduced by that person. Good chemistry can also mean not being afraid to explore with each other.
2. Men need less confirmation of love than women. From experience, I'm married over 20 years and I know my wife loves me and she knows I love her yet, the "PDA" is more important to her than me. She flirts at times that surprise me and then when we can find time together that person is gone and I'm back to the spouse that expects me to take control.
3) I am 46 and male. Love & affection? depends on the relationship. Love can be a silent emotion between people because they just "know" but holding hands or getting that hug after a really crappy day is not a terrible thing either.
It has been a while since we have talked or hooked, JoJo, but now that I am out of timeshare, perhaps we can re-connect.
WisconsinGuy:
The most important part of sex is feeling comfortable around each other. Otherwise one or both of the people involved won't be enjoying it as much as they should be. Love is important for men and women, but most men desire sex more often. This is partly because of their strong sex drive but it is also a very strong cultural thing. Many women learn to be more reserved about sex and to be more interested in romance instead of sex. I am a 52-year old man with a very strong sex drive, but I am also very emotional and love and affection are very important to me.
sam:
I hope you are doing better and wish you the very best in the weeks and months ahead. I applaud your intellectual curiosity. We share the same desire and thirst for knowledge.
!. What is the most important part of sex? Bringing joy to your partner. Sharing experiences, including sex, builds the strong bond every relationship requires.
2. Do women need love more than men...? No. Personal experience has shown me that love and sex and affection are vital to every individual. As I have been starved for love and sex and affection in my marriage for many years, I can attest to the need. As far as sexual needs, individual appetites vary. Therefore, the amount of sex desired varies also. But I believe that has more to do with the individual, and not whether that individual is a man or a woman.
4. I am a 60 year old married white male. Love and affection are very important to me. Affection, in forms as minor as a soft touch on the arm, sends thrills throughout my body. Sex is wonderful, but it has peaks and ebbs. Affection is a constant strong joyful experience that lasts forever.
Josephine - I hope this data helps you. If I can provide further insights on this, or any other topic, please do not hesitate to contact me. I would be glad to proofread your work at any time, as well. Happy (upcoming) holidays!
leoglina:
1. Most imp. part of sex is twin set of Boobs.
2. Yes, women need more love than sex because of insecurity at their later stage of life. After 45 or 50 yrs. women do not enjoy sex hence they are completely dependent upon love.
3. 42 Yrs. male. Love / affection are important but with very few however I love to have sex with many many.....
luv & kisses
lina
Merc55:
1) Touching, kissing, being intimate.Pleasing your partner, it is so much more enjoyable and fulfilling if you feel you are giving pleasure to someone.
2) I think that men in general have a differnt perception of sex and love and are able to separate the two where as most women seem to believe that you cannot have sex and intimacy unless you have love. I believe this is patially due to the way we have all been raised and from childhood up women are taught that sex without love makes them a bad person and that they should feel guilty about their own pleasure.
3) I am a 55 year old male. Love and affection are very important to me, however they do not replace sex and intimacy and sometimes life and circumstance no longer allow us to have both from the same person. maybe it is selfish but as both of these are important to our well being sometimes we need to find someone else to help fulfill these needs.
Dean
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