Its official! Men are communicating in the bedroom more now than they ever have! Good for you guys. A recent study done by the university of New Hampshire shows that men are talking to there partners more about sex, and what may be missing in the bed room. 11% more since 2000.
The study involved 1200 men and 1200 women nationwide. They found that men are more comfortable these days talking about sex, and talking about sex, with women. As a matter of fact, most men said they are more relaxed talking to women about sex and the important issue surrounding sex, then they are other men.
Women were polled as to whether the men in their lives were more involved in what they needed sexually, and if their men were more willing to discuss the more embarrassing or erotic sides of sex. Well im sorry to say that women are still more comfortable talking to other women then their own husbands about those "women issues". Ladies, letting your husbands be part of everything that happens to you, not just the good stuff, builds a tighter bond. Sometimes its the really embarrassing, or serious situations that are the most important, and the times you will remember years later and and laugh your ass off!
Remember, it is from the bad times that we learn to work together. Hard times and pain are what shape us into the people we will become. But it is also what forges the strongest friendships.
I would love to think that we are coming into an age of sexual revolution.
There is nothing better for your love or your life than talking. whether its communicating about what you or her need, or are not getting. Or its just plain talking dirty to stimulate that sexually under worked erotic side of your brain. Getting a good healthy dialog going is the fastest way to a better understanding of how sex works, and what works best for you. Also dont underestimate what you can learn guys!
Its also a great way to learn about how women think about sex, love, and men..
Something else you might try is to take a tantra or physiology 101 class together, and then you can be each others home work! :)
It is a great way to get those creative minds and juices flowing. You know what they say....... a couple that plays together stays together!
So go home grab the old lady and see if you cant find some new games to play or new toys to play with!!
And as usual if you have questions or concerns, about anything, please dont hesitate to call me!
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