Well, may be not ball, but lets play regardless! Welcome back class! today were going to talk about and explore the world of sex toys. There are so many types, colors, sizes of gadgets out there. Anything you can dream up Ill bet its probably out there already. Everything from the classic vibrator to electronic devices for muscle manipulation. Those that know me know I drag around my almost famous bag of tricks. Ive even had reviews done of my suitcase! Because I do bondage and play the Fem Dom allot I have found that i cant live without my large red suitcase. Well I thought it would be nice to explore some of the toys out there on the market. Toys arent just for the couple that have lost spark in their sex life. On the contrary toys are great for pushing each other to that next best orgasmic evening. Toys can be used for fun, introducing new methods, as well as therapy. Toys are great for the lone person, all the way to group sex. But before I get started, a word of warning. If you like to play with toys allot, you might find yourself getting in the habit of toy play all the time. Meaning you will find you NEED the toys in order to achieve well you know! :) At this point catch yourself and make a rule to have unaided sex with your partner on a regular basis. dont get yourself into any bad habits. Toys are nice, and very hot, but they cant replace good old fashioned love making.Now with that said, lets sink into the world of perverted toys! Here is a list of "cant do without toys" 
1. A good vibrator is essential. I personally think you should have several. A Hitachi Magic Wand (large plugin vibrator) pref with an attachment to get to those g-spots.(both male and female)
Second, a unit with multi heads. These are usually battery operated. (although i have been known to splice one or two with an old phone charger) lol no really!
These vibrators come in many different shapes and sizes, but the best one o have found is made by (Wicked) and its purple and has 2 bullet shaped heads. These are very
useful. They can be used in many ways. You just have to use your imagination. hint hint..:)
2. Lube, lube lube!! I know it is not really a toy but it is a must. You can never have to much lube. Well I guess you can. I did a baby oil thing once, like a whole bottle of. It was allot of fun but made sex impossible! And it took me 2 weeks and 3 bottles of shampoo to get that shit out of my hair. But anyway, if you are going to buy lube, there is something to keep in mind. If you use condoms,(and i hope you do) the water based lubes are the best.
3. gloves, yes i said gloves. these come in handy for manual manipulation. They keep things safe. you wouldn't want to scratch anyone. and no matter how much you wash your hands there is always going to be bacteria present. And second its nice to be able to just remove them and toss them. Plus they make great toys for the kids!!
4. Rope or bondage tape for those times your partner is a bit unruly.
5. A blindfold is always a good thing to play with. And it works well while your partner is restrained. It heightens the other senses and makes the experience very erotic for both of you. with these two items you and your partner can have hours of exploration and really get to know what part the mind plays in reaching climax.
6. Some kind of suction device that will fit both or you.Using a suction device on certain body parts will raise the sensitivity level 10 fold.
7. A soft sheep skin glove, or a very soft suede whip. these are used to awaken the skin and enable your partner to close their eyes and really feel every inch of their own body. People forget, while the mind is our most important sexual organ. The skin is the largest. Take your time and explore every inch of your partner. You will be amazed how many sensitive spots you will find.
8. These are last but not least! A good imagination, and an adventurous attitude goes a long way. Sex is supposed to be fun, its ok to laugh during erotic activities. So go for it! As long as everyone is having fun its never a waste of time.
Time, thats rite! put time aside for the two of you! just because you have kids and a career does not mean that sex has to stop! Sex is party of life, and should be treated as such. make time for each other. It promotes a strong bond between you and your partner, as well as promotes respect from your kids. It teaches them that mom and dad deserve and need their time together in order for everyone to be happy.
I can not say this enough. If you allow your children to see the two of you kissing, holding hands, and just playing grab ass, the happier everyone in your house will be.
It is never to late or to early to teach your kids that it is ok to be open and honestly affectionate. The more they see you hug, the more you hug them, the more they will grow to show affection to others. Also seeing this kind of horseplay between the two of you, makes them feel safe in the knowledge that their mom and dad arent going anywhere. Bottom line, dont be ashamed to show your kids that you need the time with each other. If you are honest with your kids, they will happily give the two of you the time you need.
